Open-Adoption. How was your adoption classified (open, semi-open, closed)? Do you think that the method of adoption made an impact on your views of adoption? Explain. Do you wish your adoption had been done differently? What are your thoughts on open adoption? Do you think that an adult adoptee will face some of the same issues as those in closed adoptions? Can reunion level the playing field? Explain.
I was adopted in 1970 at the height of adoption secrecy. I don't think there was even the option of open-adoption, unless it was a kinship placement and everyone already knew each other.
Growing up in a closed adoption had a huge impact on my view of adoption when we were presented with the idea of adopting to grow our family. I very much wanted Liam to have an open adoption. I wanted him to have a relationship with his mother, his siblings and his extended family. Alas, it has not turned out that way.
I don't think that adoptees growing up in an open adoption will face the same issues that those of us from closed adoptions faced. Some of if it simply the changes in society - adoption, be it closed or open, doesn't have the same secrecy and shame that it did when I was born. And being in reunion with a virtual stranger, has got to be a whole lot different then having a lifetime of shared experiences with someone you grew up knowing.
Other then in cases of safety for the child, I think open adoption is always the best option. And even in cases of safety issues, there can be safe ways to maintain some level of contact and openness.
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